Years ago, when I was still a massage therapist, I had a very wealthy client. Every week, I would go to her gorgeous home and work on her, and she would talk about her problems. Her problems mainly revolved around her champion show dogs, managing her multiple properties, and finding a man to date who could handle her wealth. At first, I thought to myself: “Geez, I would love to have her problems!” But over time, I realized that her problems caused her just as much stress and worry as my problems caused me. The problems were very different, but the effect was the same.
Fast forward about eight years, and I find myself talking to a fellow business coach about how I can’t seem to get much past $30K in monthly revenue and was stuck. She chuckled at me and said: “Andrea, that’s a pretty high quality problem.” And while she was right, and I was grateful for the quality of my problem … it was still a problem that caused me stress and worry.
I have actually gotten unstuck since then … but guess what? Even with a monthly revenue of over $50K, there are still problems. They are just different problems!
Here’s the beauty of the Law of Polarity. Everything has it’s equal and opposite polarity. Which means for every desire, its fulfillment also exists. For every problem, the solution has to also exists. For every pain, its healing exists. And they exist together, at the same time! You cannot have one without the other.
Isn’t that nice? If you have a desire in your heart, it must be available right now!
But guess what?
Here’s something that I have never heard any spiritual teachers really talk about.
For every solution, there also exists a new problem.
For every fulfillment, there also exists a new desire.
For every healing, there exists a new pain.
Whether you make three thousand, thirty thousand, or three hundred thousand dollars a month, you will always have exactly the same level of worries, stress, problems, painful issues and unfulfilled desire.
Which might make you wonder why anyone would ever bother to raise their income-level at all, right? The quality of our problems might change, but we still experience them as very real problems! We still worry, we still get stressed out, we still have unmet desires.
Which brings me to one of the most pervasive pattern of sabotage I see when it comes to manifesting money.
There are many, many people I speak to whose real, motivating desire is to no longer have to worry about money. Their desire is to no longer have to deal with financial issues. Check in with yourself for a moment. Is that what YOU long for? To be free of money concerns?
Well, guess what? Based on the Law of Polarity (there’s no getting around it, it’s a LAW!!!) the intention to have no money worries, to be free of all financial problems is impossible to manifest.
Because as soon as one financial problem is solved … a new one arises. It’s the Law.
We will always have financial issues. We will always have money problems. It’s just that the quality of the problems will change.
Are you sabotaging yourself with an impossible money intention? Are you asking the Universe for something that it cannot, by LAW, deliver?
If your income is stuck, if you are consistently sabotaging your money-making efforts, you might have to look no further than your intention.
Embrace the problems. They are a part of experiencing your Divinity in this human context.
There would be no joy in a solution without a problem.
There would be no joy in fulfillment without desire.
There would be no joy in healing without pain.
The point of creation is to create. Polarity ensures that the process is never complete, that we are never “done.” Embrace the problems, because they are not going away. They are simply going to change in nature.
To your infinite abundance,