There’s a funny thing that happens when we refuse to embrace our Soul Purpose. Our purpose will actually start acting out! Our purpose will, for lack of a productive outlet, become a problem child, misbehave itself, and seek our attention, even in a negative way.
If we don’t DO our Soul Purpose, we may even begin to think of our purpose as something that’s “wrong” with us.
You simply can’t NOT be who you truly are. Even if you’ve not given your Soul Purpose the opportunity to make you money, to support you and to serve others, it will assert itself. It is, after all, your Divinity. It’s going to come out and play … even when it’s not appropriate.
Let’s say, for example, that at Soul-level, you are energetically designed to be a spiritual teacher. That makes you gifted in the realm of communication, a natural channel. Your words are a transformational catalyst for others. And you’re probably a pretty darn good marketer and sales person, to boot.
But what if, in “real life,” you’re an accountant? Or a massage therapist? Or a jewelry designer?
Your Soul Purpose is still going to make itself known.
You’ll talk a lot. But because these careers don’t exactly support lots of communication, you’ll talk a lot when you’re not working. In fact, you’ll dominate most conversations with anyone who’l listen. Your conversations will eventually turn into venting your opinions and verbally processing your choices, because words are how you organize your thoughts and your life. If you do let the other person speak, you’ll give advice, whether it’s wanted or not. Over time, you’ll feel the need to give advice especially when it’s NOT wanted … because you give great advice, and you know it. Of course, no-one likes unsolicited advice, but you can’t stop yourself anymore. Over time, you’ll go from merely opinionated to judgmental. Finally, you’ll become resentful because no-one is listening to you when you so obviously know what’s best.
Without a productive place for your Divine gift of communication to flourish, the gift becomes a social dysfunction.
We’ve all run into those people who are so desperate for someone – anyone! – to listen to them that they’ll talk your ear off, given half a chance … right?
A few months ago, a friend and I were at a local networking meeting, and an elderly gentleman came up to us out of nowhere and interrupted our conversation. He immediately began sharing his life story. Then he started randomly lecturing us, going on and on. Finally, I interrupted, thinking I would try to redirect his rant into an actual engaging conversation. As soon as I interrupted, he stomped off … not giving me a chance to speak, not willing to listen, never truly engaging.
He was a spiritual teacher without students. Without an appropriate outlet, his gift had turned him into a harmless but weird and somewhat rude old guy that ranted at total strangers.
It’s an extreme example. But NOT doing our Soul Purpose for eighty-five years will create a pretty darn negative result, because it is a choice against our Divine nature that we make, every single day.
So here’s the question for you:
What personality traits and “flaws” are you currently beating yourself up for?
Where do you think you are a bit “dysfunctional” or “weird?” Or maybe simply not “normal?”
Could it be that your Soul Purpose is making itself known?
If you could think of a way to take what’s “weird” about you and serve others through the “dysfunction” and get paid for it … what would that look like?
Remember, you’re a Divine Being. There’s nothing “wrong” with YOU, ever. It just may be that you haven’t created the circumstances that support your Divinity, your brilliance, your gifts.
Your Divine Purpose is to be who you already are. It’s not even possible for you to be anything else. BUT it’s up to you to give your Divinity a functional, productive, and revenue-generating outlet within your human experience!
Where do you think your Purpose might be hiding? Leave a comment and share!
To your infinite abundance,
Andrea
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Thought I had it, but the revenue streams are not flowing for any of my ideas or oddities. Actually right now just free books to review are flowing my way, but the publishers forgot about me and I had to rattle the cages.
It is not a linear progression…and wow the bumps do seem to come
I thought I had done enough due diligence? But then if it is something I love well then the resistance should fade and I never have to work a day of my life?
Patricia, when we’ve identified the “work” we want to do, what’s next is learning how to effectively communicate the value of what we do so that other people can engage with us. That’s a learned skill … it doesn’t just “happen.”
We can’t skip past marketing or (gasp!) selling. Not even when we’re doing our purpose!
This is something I truly needed to hear. I was that guy who talked, and talked, and talked, and still do sometimes, but realized it and thought it was a problem. I gave advice to anyone and everyone and still believe that I have so much to give to everyone. I believe that I am a teacher and a healer, but I have been scared to do so, and a bit confused as to how for many years. Thank you for putting this out there Andrea.
~WilliamB~
Yes I agree. And I notice that I spent to much time alone. I talk to myself all the time.
Andrea,
This was a very thought-provoking post. I think I have a little bit of “acting out” going on in my perpetual restlessness: I keep MOVING to live in different spaces.
I am about to launch my entire back list of published novels — plus a bunch of them that never saw the light of day — as ebooks. There’s zero question that this will be extremely meaningful for my financial welfare, but I wonder whether in taking control of this way, I will also somehow — finally — move to where I’m meant to be.
Frankly, I don’t quite see the connection between my writing (after all, I am published) and this restlessness, yet I trust there is a connection. It will undoubtedly become clear. Thank you for pointing this out!
Best, Jody
Thank you, Andrea, for this post… I LOVE all your posts!… I am manifesting my soul-purpose career of selling custom original songs written for women… I am also working on creating almost a song a day which I’ll be posting to my website, SongADay.ca which is under construction… Thanks again, Andrea for the inspiration. Love, Aurelio.
Thank you, Andrea, for this post… I LOVE all your posts!… I am manifesting my soul-purpose career of selling custom original songs written for women… I am also working on creating almost a song a day which I\’ll be posting to my website, SongADay.ca which is under construction… Thanks again, Andrea for the inspiration. Love, Aurelio.
I’m wondering if the word theme could be substituted for purpose….. a theme can be general & evolving at the same time suggesting a broader view. Some benefits might include loosening the death grip of the left brain on the idea of singular purpose which could leave just a little bit of wiggle room for the right brain to sneak in some really useful information.
For most of my adult life I’ve been excellent at occupations that have nothing to do with who I am and that have in many cases been so far removed from anything dear to me that it’s not even funny. Oddly enough, but not really, the further removed the better I was at it and the safer I felt. The persona could take the hits, the praise & the rest without any real threat or benefit to the tender soul inside. The continual cloaking of self in this way really takes a lot of energy and requires cataclysmic cycling every few years to stop the suffocation.
Really interesting observation, Kristi, thank you!
Well, great post and that has certainly got me thinking…..dysfunction & weird….I’ve moved a lot, have done a lot, have had money problems, relationship problems, food problems, know I don’t want a ‘job’ have a love to create great healthy food and share that with people, and am getting back into my photography I abandoned a while ago…….because the people I surrounded myself with couldn’t see the wonder of beautiful photos, and as I write this it may becoming more clear……
Thanks for the post and letting me share
Jodi
Andrea,
I found this information extremely profound. It also put a new angle on some of the other principles you teach concerning self-responsibility. I have taken a few of your programs and find this is the icing on the cake even though it also feels a bit convicting. This awareness has put a few things in place that I didn’t even know was out of place.
Thank you seems so small, and yet, my gratitude is real. Denise
Andrea,
It truly amazes me when I read your writings and watch your videos. You are a person to use as an example of someone living their life (soul) purpose. It’s so easy to see that information about how the spiritual system is running things behind the scenes – just flows through you; and out into the world. It’s also rather easy to see that the way humans currently develop and share their gifts with the world is in the very early stages of evolution. Part of the coming “breaking down of current systems”, which is what is going to start happening with the dawn of the new age which starts December 22, 2012, is that new – different ways of developing and sharing of gifts is going to start happening as the old systems crumble and wither. I think you are going to be one of a number of people on the forefront of showing the rest of humanity how to identify and integrate the new systems and/or ideas into our everyday lives. I suspect that you are aware of these things already, and simply feel no need to make your future plans public, but I felt the inspiration to write; hope you don’t mind. I applaud you and the courage it took to get yourself in the position you are now in to be a huge part of the coming spiritual renaissance. How’s it feel to be labelled a “Spiritual Renaissance Woman”?
I love this, Andrea!
“Your Divine Purpose is to be who you already are. It’s not even possible for you to be anything else. BUT it’s up to you to give your Divinity a functional, productive, and revenue-generating outlet within your human experience!”
That is a key part of it. I just posted it on my Facebook page for my community.
I do see, also, how I spent some years “acting out.” I have not looked at it in just that way before. Thank you for the insight.
Michelle
What a Great article!!! That is exactly me! Yap Yap Yap cause I wasn’t following my purpose. Thank you again Andrea! Love it and keep it coming!
Oh dear! Andrea, you wrote that part about the spiritual teacher bit especially for me didn’t you. Not knowingly of course, but OMG I resonated with virtually every word, even seeing where I can sometimes be a bit ‘socially dysfunctional’ – ouch! I have known this is what & who I am for a very long time!
And just look at what I do – I help other spiritual teachers share their message with the world, whilst mine stays under wraps. What irony – having to keep my mouth shut to let others speak, when I’m longing to open mine & share my heart with the world.
But thankfully I’m exploring where I sabotage myself, making some shifts & am beginning to take action steps in the right direction, so one of these days I’ll be showing up on my own stage, finally! Then I really will be able to work with spiritual messengers directly, to help them share their message with the world, because I’ll be living it myself.
It’s articles like these, which are a combination of a slap in the face & a lightbulb going off at the same time, which keep the momentum going & help me to stay on track.
Thanks Andrea!!!
Love & blessings, Sharon
Yup…, who has been a massage therapist who talks to himself all the time for 20 yrs.? A basketball coach for 15 yrs. who always over explains minutiae to the kids? …
This guy. Ha. This post is so me on the nose…although I did learn somehow along the way that a conversation requires listening to the other person…but I could’ve easily become the guy you had to interrupt.
Thanks for posting Andrea!
Andrea, you are amazing – this post illustrates exactly how I reframed my experience from a fustrating experience yesterday; how being confined to be around others that are expressing their own unbalanced moodiness and grumpiness within themselves onto me and how it pulled me in with them, making me resent them for doing that. I instead looked at this situation and thought, nope – im not letting myself get sucked in as easy as it is to do so, especially when you are a highly sensitive and empathic soul like me! How sad I thought that you don’t know what you are actually doing to others! It made me see that rather than making myself feel like I was at fault for their moodiness and getting pulled into their crappy state and getting somewhat depressed, my would purpose spokeoud and clear…rather than try and help this moody person with my advise to just go and sit and breath it out or take a walk, I can rather tell it to others that really do want my advice! When the moody people aren’t at the stage of looking within to see why they are unbalanced that’s their fault! I’m not putting myself in the situation of making myself a victim so I’ll remove myself from them. If I can’t remove myself I’ll just breath through it remembering what I know- that it’s their crap not mine and protect myself with white light so I create a boundary for my sensitive nature to not feel so effected.
Love your work Andrea and can’t waitfor your nextpost!!
Hey, Melissa… I love your comment… I’m also a “sensitive and empathic soul”… and it really hurts being around such negativity… I always thought that there was something wrong with me… Now I realize that there’s something wrong with them!…
I appreciate your advice… Love, Aurelio.
Your description of the dysfunctional spiritual teacher describes my very elderly psychic – in- denial- mom to a tee.
Now things are changing for her – she can’t live alone anymore. It is a opportunity for the whole family, who learned to avoid her because she always knew best, to take back our personal power and for her to find a new way of expressing herself where she can feel useful. She really does have a lot to say.
Maybe I can teach her how to use Facebook or get on some forums as a way of expressing her wisdom!
Thanks for the insight and validation of the course of action I am planning for her.
LOL, Andrea! This one really made me laugh.
I have done this since I started elementary school… when I was bored (which was MOST of the time – even after skipping a grade) I would drift off into daydreams… imagining what could be and doodling on my desk.
In my day jobs, I’ve always been a bit of a meddler in people’s jobs. They always come and confide in me, and I’m always helping them ferret out what they *could* be doing instead. They go into a bit of a reverie, thinking about it. Then I always encourage them to go for it. Their jobs are NEVER what they say they want to be doing, no matter how committed they appear to be to their jobs on the surface…
And I don’t ever think of myself as a meddler…! Just an encourager.
LOL!
Blessings,
Keena
Thanks so much for the post. My purpose has been talking to me for the past few years. We’re still working on it. We are refining and it is a great, scary, exciting time.
I look forward to the fun we’re going to have.
Hi Aurelio,
Thanks for your comment. Yes it changed my life when I realized I was a sensitive empathic soul and not just the plain ‘type that gets too emotional over ordinary things’.
I came across the work of Janet Masters, she does a course especially for sensitive empathic souls. I gives you a close perspective on what it’s really like to be us and that there is nothing wrong with us- really! If you want the link to her let me know!
Blessings
Hi, Melissa!… Yes, I would be interested in checking out Janet Masters link… Thx!…