All of our intentions always manifest themselves, right? So why is it that sometimes we don’t manifest what we want?
Often, the answer can be found in the concept of “what we want.”
Most of us are not clear on what we want for ourselves. We might set intentions around what we think we should want. For example, we want a new relationship. We make the request for a life partner. Our concept of relationship just assumes that a “partner” is what we should want. But what if, in the context of a romantic relationship, we don’t really want a life partner? What if we want more of a life companion? There’s a subtle but very real difference. A “partner” implies making decisions together, co-creating, and a certain level of dependency. That’s great – if that’s what we want. But a “companion” is someone who walks alongside us on our journey. What if what we really want is a companion, but we’ve requested a partner through our intentions? Well, what shows up will be a very confusing mess. The Universe takes into account both what we requested literally, and what we “really” want. If the two don’t align, we might end up with a jumbled mess of relationships on our hands.
We might also set intentions around what we think we could get. Let’s say we really want to make $6,000 a month. But we don’t think that’s possible for us. And so we settle for an intention of $3,000 a month. In the end, we may not even receive that much. Why? Because we’ve just clearly stated to the Universe that we’re willing to receive less than what we want. Or perhaps we end up with a bunch of very difficult clients we end up resenting. That’s because we may carry a certain amount of resentment around the $3,000 we’ve had to settle for in our intention. It’s not what we “really” want, and we know it. What manifests itself will, without doubt, also not be what we “really” want.
When we set our intentions, we have to do so with complete authenticity. We have to get very honest with ourselves, even if that means asking for very big things, asking for what might not be popular within our family, or asking for something different from what most people might want.
Your life is already a perfect reflection of your intentions. If you don’t think you’re creating what you want, perhaps it’s time to look at what you “really” want.
Are you ready to learn more about this fascinating process of conscious creation? Join me in a FREE teleclass on Tuesday, May 26th. Visit http://www.empoweredsoul.com/classes.htm to register.
Blessings,
Andrea
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Brilliant Andrea!
SOOO true! I think the saying “the devil is in the details” applies here. The relationship thing is a funny reference because I saw that happen to a friend of mine. She had requested a financially stable and compatible partner and she got one — but it wasn’t one she was in love with….. she is being MUCH clearer this time around.
I just registered for your class although that usually is the craziest time here with my kids so I might have to listen to it afterward. Thank so much for making that available.
I do know about intention setting but somehow have a feeling I will learn a LOT more from you.
Love your writing Andrea. I hope all is well with you and look forward to listening to your class. All the best!
With Love and Gratitude,
Jenny
Thanks, Andrea!
Question: how do you propose that one will find what one unconsciously wants? At least for me, that’s a great mystery. Moreover, my conscious “wants” are perfectly clear – from the spiritual sphere to the very material aspects of life, including everything in-between, especially relationships. Just to give you one example: my practial/material life does not correspond at all to any of my conscious practical/material “wants” – all the opposite… How do you understand this paradox/mystery? I am checking my unconscious through therapy, contemplation, meditation and especially my intuition. The picture is not clear yet. Suggestions?
Thanks!
Rubens
Hmmm…sounds strangely familiar…
‘Nother good one, Andrea.
Another true from you Andrea, thanks for sharing, will meditate on this, the spiritual universe already knows what we want but perhaps doesnt interfere, that would be too easy and we would learn nothing.
alex
Hi Andrea — thanks for the reminder that I need to get back to my goals list. It’s amazing how I can get so bogged down in the details of my tasks that I lose sight of the big picture. Best, Chris