A mere two days ago, I told a client of mine that I don’t get overwhelmed all that often anymore. And, at the time, this statement was perfectly true. I generally focus on what I’m inspired to do right now, and get a remarkable amount done. But even as the words came out of my mouth, I thought to myself that overwhelm would probably come knocking on my door sooner rather than later. Sure enough, the very next day one of my projects left me feeling like my head was spinning. For every detail I took care of, three more appeared. It was exhausting and disheartening – and definitely overwhelming!
I followed my instincts and got myself outside, away from my PC and into the fresh air. I live in the city, so nature isn’t immediately accessible to me. But we do have a canal that runs for miles and miles only a short distance from my house. There is no traffic, and the path along the canal is dirt. It’s a great place to walk when I need to clear my head.
When I first started walking in my state of overwhelm and exasperation, I was hurried, needing to get somewhere. My eyes were fixed into the distance, to the cross-street that’s my usual turn-around point. But then I stumbled across some rocks, and I had to look down and watch my step. Then I decided to watch the next step. And the next. I disconnected my gaze from the distance, and forced myself to look at the ground right in front of me, to watch my foot step onto that piece of the path. And then I looked at the next little bit of earth that my other foot would shortly step onto.
As I focused my attention on each upcoming step – quite literally, with my head down and staring at the ground – a remarkable thing happened. My pace slowed and became steady, without hurry. My body relaxed. My breath became easier. I did in walking what I couldn’t manage to do while I was working, which was to focus only on what was right in front of me. And when I finally did look up to get my bearings, I had traveled a remarkable distance.
Sometimes we struggle to regain control of our focus. Like an unruly child, the mind wants to dart here and there, leaving us exhausted. Instead of fighting our mental state and trying to impose discipline on our disorganized thoughts, we can externalize the issue at hand. A simple activity such as walking can teach our mind to be present on the next step – just by looking at our feet when we walk.
The next time you find yourself leaping into the future and becoming overwhelmed, try this out for yourself. It doesn’t have to be over a great distance. And please don’t run into anything! But try watching each step as you take it. With each step, you may well find yourself becoming more present, more focused, and more available to what is right in front of you.  Post a comment and share what you discover!
Blessings,
Andrea
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Andrea,
I really appreciate the pace and structure of your posts — the way you begin with a personal story that emerges in a message.
I just wanted to acknowledge your skill as a Writer, from a purely technical place.
I know that this comment may not seem to be “on topic” or contributing much to the conversation, but I think the way you blog is actually evidence of what you’re describing…
Andrea, I have been reading 2 different books written by Thich Nhat Hanh. Both of them talk about mindful walking as a way to get in touch with who we are in the present moment. Sounds to me like that is what your walk accomplished for you. I know it works for me.
My husband and I just came back from a walk together. We do this about one to three times a week. My husband thinks we are doing it for the exercise and, yes, that is a part of it. I also use it to keep in touch with him and as an opportunity to share where I am at the moment. I have a tendency to shut him out when I am in a bad place. I hold the feelings so close that it is difficult to sometimes share with him especially because he is so close and sometimes involved in what helped to create the feelings. I made the decision, about 2 months ago, to use our walks as a neutral ground where I could actually talk to him about the things that are really important to me.
Hi Andrea,
I think our spiritual connections are in tune again
Recently I was reading David Allen’s ‘Getting Done Things’, and was thinking a lot about how to fight being overwhelmed by too many things in our head.
Why I first started blogging, I had this problem quite a bit. There are so many blogs and articles to read; too many emails to reply.
I found myself rushing through each task. I was not present or focus on the task-at-hand. As such, it affected the quality of my work and my communication with others.
GTD is a pretty hot topic going around the personal development sphere, and now I’m playing a little with it. Essentially, the principle is same as what you are saying – relieve your mind of distractions, focus on task at hand; then one step at a time, each task gets completed.
David does this by asking us to record our to-dos in different buckets of reminders. So that we can retrieve them and be reminded of them when required. In so doing, we can truly ‘empty’ the mind to focus on the task at hand. It’s been working quite fine for me for the past weeks. I’m still trying it out to be sure.
I have a question for you. Do you think we can ‘empty’ the mind without David’s methods, but by a somewhat more spiritual means… maybe like through meditation or listening to soothing music? Any experience with that?
This is a great point, Andrea.
I have a friend who was hiking alone in the Himalayas, trying to go to Gangotri, the source of the Ganges River. The path was increasingly arduous, and as he progressed he despaired of completing his journey. As he was climbing a particularly challenging ascent, he found that as he focused on simply managing the steps immediately ahead of him, the drudgery of the journey began to lessen, enabling him to conquer the steep path ahead of him. And his reward? As he reached the top he found before him a stunning panoramic view of the Himalayas such as he could never could have imagined.
This is a confirmation of the saying, “Plod rhymes with God.”
Slade – thank you!!! I so appreciate it, especially since writing is one of those skills I just recently unearthed …
Patricia – I had heard of walking meditations before, and walking is a wonderful way of clearing the mind. I had just never so deliberately watched my feet before … maybe I just reached a new level of much-needed mindfulness. I love that you share your walks with your husband! My whole family often goes for walks, my two-year-old on the tricycle, and I always enjoy it.
Lawrence – thanks for commenting! I actually think of meditation as THE most practical way of learning how to focus the mind. I mean, all we do in meditation is to give the mind something to focus on – the breath, a mantra, counting, etc. And then we teach the mind to focus where we wish. Our thoughts so often think us, rather than us being in charge of our thoughts. Meditation is about training the mind to focus where we wish it to go. It does amazing things for concentration, memory, and also combats stress because it allows us to be more present. So meditation is really practical, beyond any spiritual implications.
ReddyK – that is the perfect story to illustrate the point! I love the saying, too – I had not heard that one before, but I’m certainly going to remember that!
Blessings,
Andrea
Agreed with Slade, Andi – your writing really shows your uniqueness – relaxed, peaceful, and yet with a definite zest for life!